i hate my ex teammate more than anyone

Look, I’m not saying that I’m going to completely ghost my friends from high school once I leave for college. That’s not what I’m going to do at all. HOWEVER, if certain specific ex-teammates could stop trying to interact with me that would be fantastic. One of the seniors from last year WILL NOT STOP bugging me. We’re talking facetimes that she won’t let me hang up on (the last one lasted two and a half hours), constant snapchats (today it was a picture from two years ago when we had a sleepover), asking to hang out all the time (my excuses get more and more creative each time). At some point you’d think she’d get a hint. The worst thing is that she acts like we’re super close and tries to say things to me that are just straight up wrong. When she called me last week she told me that I don’t seem like the type of person that would get video games. I own. Multiple. Consoles. and I have for years. I’ve been playing video games pretty regularly since I was in elementary school (my old nintendo DS game collection was pretty big back in 4th grade). She told me she didn’t know that I have an xbox despite the fact that she has seen my xbox before. She’s still just as self-absorbed as she was before she left. I spent so much time last year running emotional damage control on her stupid relationship and her inability to be a good teammate to everyone else. I’m not obligated to be her friend after she basically forced me to be her relationship therapist for a year. Probably the most irritating thing she said was that I need to come down to springfield, missouri in april next year to see her at state championships for guard. If this dumb bitch thinks. I am going to get a whole plane ticket. Or drive THIRTEEN HOURS. To see her and my current team perform. She is out of her mind. She’s in college, why can’t she just move on and get new friends. Maybe it’s just that I see college as a chance to distance myself from St. Louis or whatever, but I hope my friends ghost me if I ever get that clingy next year.

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  1. Yikes, tough situation. I’d just gradually not be available. Or get her on Marco Polo so you can limit the video messages to when you want to see them. I dunno. Sounds so clingy!

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